Guide to Bullet Vibrator

How to Use a Bullet Vibrator

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If you’re looking for a thrilling vibrator in a pint-sized package, then bullet vibrators are just what you need. Bullet vibes are a scaled-down version of a classic vibrator. This gives them a bullet-like shape, which is where their name comes from. Most bullet vibrators measure just 3-4 inches long and just 1 inch wide. They’re made primarily from ABS plastic or silicone. Bullet vibrators come with a wide variety of stimulation modes, ranging from one speed all the way up to 20 or more different speeds and vibration patterns. While most bullet vibrators still use batteries, many of the newer models are now rechargeable.

According to Adam & Eve's resident sexpert Dr. Jenni Skyler, PhD, LMFT and CST, “Good things come in small packages. Plus the pint-sized package allows for easy, concealed travel.”

With their simple design, even beginners find bullet vibrators easy to use. However, there all kinds of tips and tricks that make bullets one of the most versatile sex toys you can buy. Keep reading to find all the different ways you can use this classic toy to spice up your sex life.

“The small versatility of the Bullet allows beginners to try a sex toy without being overwhelmed by size or sound.” Dr. Jenni said.

Getting Ready to Use Your Bullet

Before you take your new bullet vibrator for a test drive, there are a few simple things you need to do. First, you’ll need to make sure your bullet’s ready to rumble with a fresh set of batteries or that it’s fully charged. You obviously don’t need to replace the batteries every time you use a bullet vibrator. If it’s your first time with a particular toy, however, a fresh set of batteries is essential. This lets you experience your new bullet’s full potential. Using an old set of batteries might make it feel weak and underpowered. And if you’ve got a rechargeable bullet, keeping it fully charged ensures it won’t run out of juice right before you have another orgasm!

Next, you’ll need some lube. The type of lube you use depends on the toy’s material. Water-based lubes are compatible with all types of materials, making them most people’s go-to option. Silicone-based lubes are longer-lasting and waterproof. However, you should never use silicone-based lubes with a silicone bullet. While it’s not as bad as crossing the streams, a silicone lube can still damage silicone sex toys. You can spice up your fun even more by using a warming lube with your bullet vibrator for additional stimulation.

Last, you’ll need to set aside some private time for using your bullet vibrator. You might need to kick your kids (and even your partner) out of the house. The last thing you want is to have your orgasm interrupted! Turn on some relaxing music and maybe even light a candle or two to set the mood.

4 Steps for Enjoying Your Bullet Vibrator

Once you’ve finished preparing everything, you can finally try using your bullet vibrator. First, start by applying a generous amount of lube to the bullet and yourself. While some women don’t think they need lube, it’s strongly recommended for a more comfortable and enjoyable experience.

“Many women are surprised by how a little lube on the clitoris creates extra engorgement and arousal,” Dr. Jenni added.

Next, gently rub it all over your body before turning the vibrator on. See how it feels on your nipples and clit. Slip the tip inside your vagina while holding the base tightly. This exploratory session helps you get used to the feel of the bullet and gives your body time to adjust.

“It's good to warm up all the nerve endings — the ones all over the outside of your body as well as the ones inside your vagina,” Dr. Jenni explained.

Third, turn the bullet vibrator on. Most bullets come with a single button in the base. Holding that button down for approximately three seconds turns them on. This applies to most but not all vibes. Some bullets have a twist dial that you spin to turn them on and adjust their power. A few bullet vibrators have multiple buttons to control different features.

Finally, continue exploring your body with it like you did before while the vibrations work their magic. Gently rub the vibrating bullet around your nipples, breasts and any other sensitive spots you have. As you become more aroused, shift the bullet below your waist, starting with your inner thighs. Gradually move the bullet closer to your clitoris and vagina. Some women like the feel of a bullet vibrating on their clit, while others might find it too strong. Due to their small size, bullet vibrators aren’t the best at penetration. But you can still slip the tip inside a little bit as a nice tease. When you’re using a bullet vibrator, there’s only one real rule you need to follow: if it feels good, then keep doing it!

“Don't be afraid to explore vibrations all over your body. You might surprise yourself and find new erogenous zones you didn't previously know about,” Dr. Jenni said. “It's important for beginners, as well as seasoned sex toy users to remember: Our bodies have an amazing capacity to come to life when given time and permission.”

Our Favorite Bullet Vibrators

Adam & Eve offers dozens of different bullet vibrators. The My Private O Vibrator is one of our most popular bullet vibes, with over 125,000 sold. This bullet vibrator is fully waterproof for wet-and-wild fun in the shower and features a budget-friendly price that makes it easy on your bank account. The colorful Rechargeable Power Bullet is another popular option. This bullet vibrator features nine powerful vibration modes along with a colorful metallic finish that makes it sparkle!

Extra Tips & Tricks

Most bullet vibrators contain the motor in the tip. This allows you to focus vibrations on a single spot for maximum power and pleasure. The extra intensity will leave you moaning in no time!

After trying out the initial vibration setting, experiment with different stimulation modes. (If your bullet has any. Some only have one stimulation mode, while others might have dozens.) The average bullet comes with two or three speeds that deliver steady vibration power. More advanced bullets also include multiple vibration patterns with pulsating and escalating waves. The Bam Rechargeable Bullet, for example, comes with 10 different stimulation modes that will make your toes curl.

Provided it’s waterproof, trying using your bullet vibrator in the shower or bathtub. The warm, soothing water cascading down your skin and the stimulating vibrations are incredibly relaxing. It’s like a spa day without leaving the house!

“Self pleasure in a body of water, like the bath or shower, can enhance a sense of relaxation. It is through the doorway of relaxation that arousal has space to emerge,” said Dr. Jenni.

Bullets can do a lot more than just vibrate. The next time you’re shopping for a new bullet vibrator, carefully research all the different options. The Four Play Rechargeable Bullet Pleasure Kit comes with multiple sleeves that slip over a bullet vibrator. The sleeves turn the bullet into anything from a G-Spot to a rabbit vibe to increase your pleasure even more. And then there’s Eve’s Rechargeable Remote Control Bullet. This bullet can be worn inside your panties while you or your partner control it using the included remote control. This allows you to use the bullet vibrator during foreplay or even out in public in the middle of your date. Just imagine how naughty you’ll feel watching a movie or eating in your favorite restaurant while the bullet buzzes your clit! It’s a fantastic way to spice up your relationship.

“Partner panty bullet play is an exciting way for couples to really spice up their sex life and add in some taboo eroticism,” said Dr. Jenni.

How to Use a Bullet Vibrator When Traveling

One of the major perks of using a bullet vibrator is their travel-friendly design. Due to their small size and light weight, bullet vibes are extremely easy to hide so you can carry them almost anywhere. Just slip one or two bullets in your suitcase before leaving on your next trip. If you hide the bullets with your make-up or bathroom essentials, they blend in perfectly with your lipstick, balms and other items. If you’re staying closer to home, you could easily carry a bullet vibe in your purse or in the glove box of your car. And since many bullet vibes are affordable, you can buy multiple ones to hide them in different places so there’s always one nearby!

“The small size allows for easy carry access, and thus, easier spontaneous use,” said Dr. Jenni. “Be prepared at all times, and have that sexy Bullet in your purse or back pocket.”

The Rocks Off 80mm Bullet makes a great travel vibe. It’s quieter than average so you don’t have to worry about getting caught either. And that’s exactly how at least one Adam & Eve customer uses her bullet vibrator. She wrote in a product review: “Was in my purse and when hubby and I were traveling actually used it for a quickie.”

Dr Jenni added, "Quickies can be far more accessible and enjoyable when the third-party power tool, aka the Bullet, joins the party."

Using a Bullet Vibrator with Other Sex Toys

Another perk of bullet vibrators is their versatility. Many bullet vibrators can be used with other sex toys for additional thrills. Many penis rings come with bullet vibrators for clitoral stimulation during sex. Some dildos can even hold a bullet vibrator in their base for additional stimulation.

Male masturbators are another sex toy that can greatly benefit from a bullet vibrator. Simply slip the bullet vibrator inside the love tunnel to add stimulating vibes to the masturbator. Some even come with a special pocket just for bullet vibrators.

Bullet Vibrators for Guys & Couples

Bullets aren’t just for single women. With a little imagination, there’s a lot of different ways for guys and couples to use bullet vibrators too. Men can use them for direct stimulation, focusing the vibrating bullet on their sensitive tip, their balls or even the perineum. (That’s the area between his penis and backdoor also known as the “taint.”) Couples can use bullet vibrators during foreplay or sex to help spice things up.

Dr. Jenni said, “Bullets work for all people—regardless of genitals or gender.”

How to Clean a Bullet Vibrator

Once playtime’s over, it’s time to clean your bullet vibrator.

The quickest and easiest way is by spraying your bullet with a sanitizing antibacterial sex toy cleaner before wiping it down with a clean cloth. This leaves your bullet vibe completely clean and safe without running the risk of getting the motor or battery compartment wet. If you don’t have any sex toy cleaner, you can use ordinary soap and water. Just make sure to thoroughly scrub your toy with a soft, wet cloth while taking care to keep the motor and batteries dry.

After you’ve cleaned your bullet vibrator, dry it off with a lint-free cloth. If you don’t plan to use your bullet vibrator in the next few days, then remove the batteries. If your bullet’s rechargeable, then now’s a good time to recharge it so it will be ready to go the next time you need it.

Store your bullet vibrator in a cool, dark place in its own storage bag. Don’t expose your bullet to direct sunlight or keep it near sources of heat like a radiator. Take good care of your bullet vibrator, and it’s sure to take good care of you!