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When people hear the word ‘bondage’ they may have very different ideas about what that means. Some have a positive association with bondage because they know a little about BDSM. Others are focused on non-consensual bondage that keeps people in compromising positions or limits their freedom or power. However, the type of bondage discussed here is consensual and all parties involved are eager to use bondage gear in their erotic play. Even when someone is put in a compromising position, they have chosen to be there.
Bondage gear goes hand in hand with making scenes or kinky play sessions easy and fun for everyone to enjoy. For example, if someone doesn’t know a lot about tying knots but their partner wants to be restrained, they can use simple, adjustable ankle and wrist cuffs that use velcro or a buckle strap. Grabbing a blindfold may be the simplest way to start exploring sensation play by taking away one of their senses so they can focus on all the others!
In this guide we help our readers understand some of the attraction and value to consensual bondage in BDSM scenes. We review where some of these implements, gear and tools come from, how to take care of the materials, how to play safe with others and we’ll give some tips and advice on the best gear to choose!
Bondage is popular because many people enjoy acting out erotic fantasies of domination or submission. Whatever your fascination with bondage is, either to experience a kinky and erotic display of affection or to get off on the power play involved with having control or surrendering control by being bound, exploring the erotic fantasy of bondage will be extremely satisfying.
It’s easy to get started in bondage. You have a variety of different toy and gear options including restraints, ropes, handcuffs, gags, blindfolds, leather, tape, hoods, collars, chains, sleep sacks or spreader bars. Yes, that’s a mighty long list, but with the right gear you can experience a rush of adrenaline when being restricted or restricting someone else (all in fun and consensual of course). Excited to get started? Let’s begin by exploring just a few of the popular bondage applications:
Under the Bed Restraint System – Turn any size bed into a place of pleasurable bondage sex.
Cotton Bondage Rope – Awesome for creating body harnesses and restrictive bindings.
Black Fleece Lined Blindfold – A black leather blindfold lined with soft black fleece for extra comfort. Sight deprivation heightens all the other senses. These are great for teasing and subduing your submissive.
Door Jam Bondage Accessory – A simple, effective and portable bondage device. Works by binding your partner up to the door. This is also great for vacations and travel.
Neoprene Super Cuffs – Very comfortable and conforms to the wrists. Has 2 heavy duty steel d-rings to attach to bed posts or to each other.
Leather Ball Gag – This jelly latex ball gag is very soft and comfortable in the mouth. A good gag muffles most sound and really puts a submissive into their place!
Leather Locking Cuffs – Durable, good looking, affordable and high quality cuffs to lock your partner (or yourself) down securely. These cuffs are difficult to escape from.
Bondage Tape – Used in a multitude of creative ways for bondage. You can bind, gag, blindfold, mummify or anything else you can dream up. The tape won’t stick to hair or skin!
Premium Fur Lined Locking Collar – An ultimate blend of comfort and durability to restrain the most unruly submissive in the most comfortable fashion.
Collar with Nipple Clamps – Never lose your nipple clamps again. This new dual purpose collar has attached nipple clamps. This un-lined leather collar secures by means of a buckle and has 2 12 inch chains attached to the front d-ring. At the end of the chains are adjustable nipple clamps. Note: Nipple clamps can be removed from its key-chain style fastener.
Adjustable Spreader Bar with Cuffs -This spreader bar is a great toy bag addition. The locking cuffs fit either wrists or ankles. The permanently mounted cuffs pivot for comfort. It will break down into three sections if necessary to fit into an equipment bag. The bar is adjustable from about 24 inches to 36 inches in width.
Steel Manacles and Shackles – Put them in their place with a custom made set of strong, cold, heavy steel shackles.
Premium Total Sensory Deprivation Leather Hood – The ultimate sensory deprivation hood. With your senses leaving quickly you become very submissive to your master’s demands and struggle to hear their every word.
Darlex Heavy Duty Sleep Sack – Designed to be very restrictive for movement and will stand up to all futile attempts to escape.
Professional Police Handcuffs – Police quality handcuffs for that extreme bondage fantasy.
Owning quality wrist and ankle restraints is the first step in the world of bondage for many. We have a wide selection of bondage cuffs to suit whatever style you're looking for as well as a diverse listing of alternative bondage restraints including ropes, ties and tethers.
Pry those legs open for easy access with one of our sturdy spreader bars! Bring your BDSM porn fantasies to life with this essential piece of bondage gear. Spreader bar sex uses device bondage to help you go deeper and explore more sex positions. Wrap their ankles (or wrists!) in comfortable cuffs and then have your way with their helpless body! Use the bar for leverage during penetration, or take advantage of their vulnerability with a tickler or flogger. You can even use it for self-bondage! Every bondage sex toy is covered by a satisfaction guarantee so that you aren't in a bind (at least not in a bad way).
Thinking about trying something new? Our bedroom bondage toys offer exciting and stimulating new ways to spice things up. Whether it's the restraints, tethers, ticklers or whatever else turns you on, you and your partner can allow your imaginations to thrive.
Our armbinders provide you with a completely bound sensation of having your arms rendered immobile. These can be a great addition to any bondage set and we've got a selection to meet your needs whether you're a beginner or and advanced player.
Bed restraints are easy to use bondage straps that use the weight of the bed or mattress itself to turn your bed into bondage furniture. BDSM under bed restraints don't require you to install hardware, learn how to tie knots for shibari rope bondage, or even change much about your bedroom. They are simple, lightweight, easy to transport and transform your bedroom into a kinky playspace for you and your lover. They also tuck neatly under the bed or covers so you can keep your kinky side discreetly hidden.
Benches and bondage horses are furniture pieces that allow a submissive to be strapped to a solid and stable table or bench-like item and fucked or teased at hip level. These are considered solid and sturdy items.
Meant to lift one partner up so they are suspended during sex. They can be hung on the back of a door or from a hardpoint in the ceiling.
Our selection of chastity devices and belts are priced from beginners to advanced enthusiasts. For those who may be interested in experimenting in this popular fetish we have plenty of choices to fit your particular need. Experience what it is like to have your partner control your sexual gratifications with one of our effective chastity belts. We've developed an easy-to-read guide to help you better understand the allure of this type of play. This guide gives a bit of a historical look at the practice. You can also watch the XR University show about male chastity play.
Male Chastity Devices These devices are meant to fit around a flaccid penis and prevent erection or, at the very least, make it very uncomfortable. They also prevent masturbation and sexual intercourse until unlocked. There are some that combine the cock cage with an anal hook inserted in the anus and locked to the cage to prevent anal penetration, as well.
Female Chastity Devices These devices are worn like panties but cover the entrance to the vagina. There are also some that block the entrance to the anus, as well. They prevent penetration for sexual intercourse as well as masturbation.
Chastity Accessories The most common accessories include locks and safes for the locks and keys
Great for pegging, sex that doesn’t involve a penis, those who have difficulty getting an erection, or even chastity, strap-ons offer penetrative pleasure where it isn’t always possible. Explore new depths with your partner with a first time anal dildo, or achieve familiar sensations with a realistic dildo. Vibrating strap-ons offer a new level of sensation. Many strapon harnesses accommodate small and large dildos so that you can always find the perfect fit. Or go harness-free with a strapless strap-on! Want a stronger, bigger cock? Hollow strapons allow you to slip your shaft inside and take your partner for a ride. Whether you’re feeling adventurous or just feeling like you want better sex, strap-ons will take you there!
Ride the Rainbow Universal Strap-On Harness Allow for the wearer to insert their own penis inside so they can play into the fantasy of their partner’s desire of different girth, width or texture. It also is useful for those with ED (erectile dysfunction) or if the wearer wants to keep pleasuring their partner but have already ejaculated. This brightly colored, nylon harness is a perfect addition to your Pride collection or other rainbow items!
DP Strap-Ons Can be worn by both men and women. These strap-ons offer a chance for the wearer to penetrate both the anus and vagina at the same time. For women, a DP Harness is used to strap two dildos to it. For men, the harness secures below their cock so the dildo is below their testicles.
Strapless Strap-Ons These unique strap-ons are held in place by an insertable bulb into the vagina of the one wearing it. Added features such as vibration help both the giver and the receiver achieve orgasm and feel penetrated at the same time.
• Face or Mouth Strapon
• Dildo Straps that strap onto boots or thighs
• Vibrating or Thrusting Strapons
These female and male sex dolls are always ready to fulfill your fantasies. Use all their holes and have your way with them! Forget about blow-up dolls - your cock deserves the most realistic sex doll possible, made for sucking dick and getting pounded. The lifelike skin will bounce when you slap it, and stretch when you pinch it. Jerking off with a pocket pussy has its time and place, but there's nothing like fucking a sex doll, especially a life size sex doll that you can dress up and use like a slut whenever you want!
New variations of sex dolls are coming out every season, but there are still a few categories that they tend to fit in.
Torso Only These dolls don’t have arms and legs, but they have realistic genitals! They come with breasts, pussy and anus for female dolls, ass, cock and balls for male dolls, and breasts and cock and balls for trans dolls.
Full Body These dolls are as life-like as possible with realistic genitals, mouth and include a full torso with legs and arms. Pose them any way you like for an authentic fantasy scene!
Ass Only These are similar to male masturbation toys in that they are smaller and more compact. They focus only on the genitals and ass and leave out the rest.
Waist Down Especially appealing for nylon and foot fetishists. These legs are attached to a beautiful ass and pussy. Legs are built with imitation bones for a realistic feel and weight!
While all nipple clamps have a similar purpose (to pinch the nipples or skin), there are a variety of differences in design. Some are more heavy and others pinch, while even newer designs include vibrations or decorative accessories!
Classic Nipple Clamps These include clamps and tweezers that pinch the nipple.
Nipple Chains & Accessories These items adorn, accessorize or enhance the nipple clamps. This includes chains that can be connected to other body parts, restraints or toys, weights and decorative accessories.
Nipple Pumps & Suckers These items include a variety of motorless suction devices that use a vacuum seal to suck on the clit and stay in place. A few items, such as O-rings, are used to enhance and enlarge the nipples. Check out our Guide to Clit, Breast & Ass Pumps for more information and suction play with breasts and nipples.
Vibrating Nipple Toys These toys combine nipple suckers, clamps or tweezers with vibration on the nipples for intense sensation!
Unique Nipple Toys This category includes a variety of devices to torture, tease and please the nipples. Unique toys such as ElectroSex nipple clamps, forceps, nipple extenders and nipple screws all add an interesting variety of nipple play options.
Penis Pumps These devices use a vacuum chamber to create a seal around the cock and then slowly suction all the air out of the chamber. This causes the tissue to engorge and become erect.
Penis Extenders, Sleeves and Hollow Strap-Ons These devices are worn over the cock and are a type of ‘wearable dildo’. Choose one that adds length, girth, texture or all three!
Penis Stretchers These are corrective devices that lengthen and straighten the penis over time.
Cock Rings These limit the backflow of blood from the cock which helps maintain erection.
Ejaculation Delay Sprays and Numbing Creams These products numb the penis so that it doesn’t get oversensitized. It helps to maintain an erection and is frequently used by those with PE (premature ejaculation) to keep from cumming.
Sleeves and Strokers These are sleeves that fit over the penis and are used to enhance masturbation or jerking off. Add lubricant to the inside of the toy and enjoy all the different textures that stimulate the glans and shaft. Some strokers have vibrators built in for added sensation.
Realistic Pussy, Ass, Breast and Mouth Masturbators Some of these are strokers that look like a mouth, pussy or asshole; these ones are rather small and fit over the penis nicely. Others are small torsos or a synthetic ass with an anus and pussy so there’s more cushion for thrusting. The main appeal is its lifelike design to enhance the fantasy.
Pocket Pussies And Top Pornstar Lifelike Vagina Strokers These are designed to fulfill a specific fantasy of fucking a pornstar. Certain pornstars have had their pussies, mouths and asses molded so their fans can enjoy watching them and also feeling them as they fantasize during masturbation.
Classic Fleshlight Strokers and Sex Stamina Trainers These are the most classic versions of male masturbation toys. Fleshlights are not only used for pleasure; they’re also used for increasing sexual stamina. For those who ejaculate quickly or too soon for their partner, these devices are realistic and mimic the feel and texture of a real vagina, mouth or ass.
Automatic Masturbator Devices and Auto Blowjob Machines These machines are designed to be used as strokers, but have motors in them that imitate blowjobs for intense sensation during masturbation.
Magic Wand Attachments For Men A diverse variety of wand attachments that pair with the strong vibration from the wand directly into the masturbation toy.
Penis Head Stimulators and Glans Vibrators Directed stimulation of the glans or head. Many of these are similar to the wand attachments, but don’t require a wand in order to be used and have their own vibrators included.
Male Masturbation Lubes & Stroker Accessories Lubricants are important for masturbation, especially for masturbation toys. Make sure to have the right kind of lube that is compatible with each toy. Learn more about lubricants by reading our Guide to Lubricants.
Tenga Masturbators These sleek, modern masturbators focus away from the traditional designs of pussy, ass and mouth. They don’t seek to replace the type of stimulation of intercourse or fellatio but instead create an entirely new and unique experience. They are easy to travel with and don’t look like a sex toy (so people can avoid the discomfort of having someone discover their sex toy) and most are reusable and easy to clean.
Bondage Bed Restraints These restraint systems are made to tie your partner to the bed. While a few of them require bed posts or eye-hooks, most of them are ready to go and don’t require anything except the bed itself. This type of item belongs more in the bedroom bondage category (see Guide to Bedroom Bondage), but falls under the category of furniture if left in place as a fixed item in the room.
Sex Bedsheets and Vacubeds Enjoy watersports or messy play? A sex bedsheet creates a barrier between the floor, bedsheets or bed and any sploshing juices, squirt, urine, water or lubricants used. Vacubeds are unique items that suction the entire person into a sleeping sack or bed and cause their entire body to feel compression.
Sex Benches and BDSM Horses Benches and bondage horses are furniture pieces that allow a submissive to be strapped to a solid and stable table or bench-like item and fucked or teased at hip level. These are considered solid and sturdy items.
Sex Chairs, Stools & Rockers Devices that are similar in many ways to some fucking machines but generally do not require a motor to work; they function by means of the user rocking, grinding or sitting on them and they enhance sex or masturbation.
Sex Pillows, Wedges and Position Aids These help partners position themselves in a variety of poses with pillows, wedges and other devices that support easier access to the genitals and body and can reduce discomfort or strain during sex.
Sex Swings and Slings Meant to lift one partner up so they are suspended during sex. They can be hung on the back of a door or from a hardpoint in the ceiling.
Stockades, Pillories and Cages The stockades and pillories are furniture that keep the head and hands (pillory) or feet (stockades) immobile by locking them into place with a board. Cages are generally large enough for one person and commonly have large, horizontal bars. These are considered solid and sturdy items
Egg Vibrators These are egg-shaped vibrators that are inserted into the vagina. Some women enjoy the stimulation on the G-spot, and others include it in their partnered sex because the egg is small enough that a penis or dildo can also fit (if only partially). They should not be used anally as they will easily get lost and require medical removal.
Strapless Strap-Ons These amazing toys are strap-ons that don’t require straps! Many of them vibrate and have several features, but once inserted into the top (the one wearing the strap-on), the buttons that control vibration are difficult to reach, so having a remote control is very helpful!
Vibrating Anal Plugs A lot of people like to insert an anal plug and do other things with their hands. Having to fidget with vibration settings is annoying and unsanitary. Remote controls make this pleasurable and easy.
Vibrating Pods with Tail These can be inserted internally or used on the genitalia. Slip them into a pair of panties or tight fitting boxers so they can stimulate the clitoris or taint and control them with the remote.
Vibrating Dildos Remote controls change the vibration or thrusting settings on these toys so you can enjoy riding these dildos without reaching back to adjust!
Ball Gags Traditional mouth gags that fill the mouth and keep them from making noise. Most have a ball that their teeth close over, keeping their jaw open. Unique ball gags have add-ons like dildos or ash-trays for the purpose of being in service to their Master or Dom.
Open Mouth Gags These gags, sometimes called O Ring Gags, open the mouth wide and keep it open. This increases air flow and lowers risk of choking. Insert a cock or toy into the mouth and they won’t be able to close their mouth. Enjoy the steady drool that drips from their open lips.
Unique and Inflatable Gags Inflatable gags are similar to ball gags except the part that goes inside the mouth uses a hand pump to inflate so users can find the perfect size for their jaw. Other unique gags include dog-bone gags for puppy play, leather gags to bite down on, and penis gags so a partner can fuck the mouth of the one who is gagged and ride their face. There are also lip gags, which are great for blowjobs! They keep the mouth open but protect the cock from teeth.
Penis Gags These gags, also referred to as forniphilic gags, strap on to the face and either have a penis facing outwards toward a partner or inwards into the gagged person’s mouth. The wearer can get fucked while also experiencing getting deepthroated. Gags also have smaller dildo sizes so they don’t choke on the dildo, but still have the feeling of a dick they can’t get out of their mouth. Additionally, people use them for degradation and humiliation. For gags with the penis on the outside, people can fuck their sumbissive’s face and ride them!
Pony Bit Gags These gags are specifically for pony play, but they are great for those who don’t want the size and shape of a ball in their mouth. They are horizontal and wide, so it’s easy to close the teeth around them but still be gagged. This can be much more comfortable for the jaw and results in being able to wear it for a longer duration than a ball gag. Bit gags mimic a horse bit (the part the horse bites down on) from a horse’s bridle. Some include ‘reigns’ that serve as nipple clamps.
Medical Gags These gags are replicas or imitations of actual medical gags used in surgery or a doctor’s office. For more information on medical play check out our Guide to Medical Devices!
Classic Silicone & Rubber Cock Rings These are the best rings to start with because they easily stretch over the cock, limiting any chance of discomfort or getting it stuck.
Vibrating Penis Rings Great for partner play, on and off the penis. Depending on the type of sex, the vibrator can tease the clitoris, scrotum, or anus.
Cock & Ball Rings These are cock rings that go over the shaft and around the scrotum. Many men enjoy the added sensation of the rings pulling their testicles downward and away from the body as it changes the way they orgasm, as well as helps the ring stay snug against the body. Some items are just single rings that loop over both the penis shaft and scrotum together, resting on the base of the pelvis. Others include one or more rings that separate the testicles from the shaft, or even split the two testicles so they’re pulled not only downward but apart, such as this one.
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Steel, Chrome & Other Metal Cock Rings These cock rings are better for people who know their ring size as they are very difficult to remove once the cock is fully erect. The wearer can ejaculate and allow the penis to relax in order to remove, but it can still be uncomfortable if it is sized too small. If they have the right ring size, these rings are the easiest to clean because metal is non-porous, pleasing to the eye and add a little bit more of a bondage aesthetic due to the fact these rings are more challenging to remove and industrial looking. For those seasoned cock-ring users, this may be the next upgrade!
Glans & Penis Head Rings These rings are decorative as well as useful. Some people really enjoy the way they look and use them solely for aesthetic purposes. Others enjoy the weight of them and will even add multiple rings. These rings are worn beneath the corona (beneath the head of the penis) and engorge primarily the head of the cock. Their partners can also enjoy the ribbed sensation upon penetration while the owner of these rings wears them. Lastly, those who enjoy urethral play use head rings to help keep the penis plug in place.
Cock Rings With Butt Plugs, Prostate & Taint Stimulators These ring and butt plug combos stimulate the P-spot for prostate orgasms while increasing the sensitivity in the cock and delaying orgasm. When the wearer finally orgasms, it will be very intense!
Leather Cock Rings Chosen mostly for aesthetic appeal or culturally for those who are in the BDSM world, these rings can be adjusted and have a little give while still fitting snug against the skin. Be aware that leather is much harder to clean and that these toys should not be shared.
Specialty & Fetish Cock Rings These include cages, chastity belts, CBT (cock and ball torture) devices, leashes that attach to the scrotum or penis, rings that attach to both the nipples as well as the cock and cock rings that have a slim dildo below the scrotum for double penetration.
Adjustable, Lasso & Velcro Cock Rings These are perfect for beginners and those who haven’t found the “perfect fit”. These adjustable rings allow for customizing the exact amount of tension desired and allow for easy removal.
Electro Stimulation Cock Rings These cock rings allow for electric stimulation with our ElectroSex toys. Invigorate the penis with electrifying stimulation for some of the most exciting orgasms!
There are many options for cock and ball toys, but below are the most popular categories for those interested in expanding their experience and trying something new!
Cock Rings These are rings used to help maintain an erection. Some of them are also designed for aesthetic appeal and to be decorative.
Masturbation Devices These include a wide variety of devices that men can use to jerk off with. Some are hands free and simulate intercourse or fellatio!
Ball Stretchers These devices either have heavy weights or length to them so that the balls are tugged and pulled away from the body. This is helpful in delaying ejaculation and also incredibly stimulating and pleasurable, unless it is taken to an extreme in which case it becomes a form of CBT.
Penis Jewelry Many of these products look sexy to wear but double as a functional way to apply pressure to sensitive areas on the shaft!
Penis Enhancement Devices These include penis pumps, cock sleeves, penis stretchers and penis extenders. For anyone wanting to enhance the size, girth or length of their cock, these devices are what you’re looking for!
Chastity Devices Keeping your cock captive is a highly arousing power dynamic that many men and couples enjoy! Choose from silicone, plastic or steel cages that lock down that cock!
Penis Extenders and Hollow Strap Ons Wear a hollow dildo and add girth, length or texture to your penis!
Penis Lubes For any of the toys above, you’ll need lube! Some lubes play the specific role of numbing the cock so it isn’t too sensitive! Others create a tingling sensation to heighten pleasure. Choose from our wide selection!
Anything that’s ever been used in surgery or a doctor’s office can be used as a medical fetish device. Below are a few of the most commonly used items that Extreme Restraints carries.
Urethral Sounds Inserted into the male urethra, these come in different sizes and materials.
Speculums Used to open up the vaginal canal for playing doctor and getting a better look.
Wartenberg Wheel Intensely awakens the nervous system, this wheel’s pricks heighten sensitivity.
Pussy Clamp Opens the pussy for play, insertion and to get a better look inside.
Metal Mouth Gag Keeps the mouth wide open, similar to the ones used in a dentist’s office.
Cupping Sets Uses suction to pull the skin into the cup, away from the body. Originally used in Chinese Medicine.
Forceps A medical tool for holding flesh firmly in place.
Rosebud Drillers and Cylinders A tool for suctioning the anus so that it puckers.
Medical Supplies Condoms, gloves, enema hoses and more.
Enema Equipment Everything needed to use enemas. Learn more about enemas by reading our Guide to Enema Equipment.
E-Stim E-stim and electrosex gear are often used to arouse and excite. Read all about it in our Guide to ElectroSex Gear.
Medical Restraints Keep a patient from wriggling and writhing free with medical grade restraints.
Bedroom Restraint Kit Perfect for beginners. Tie up your lover to any bed. No bedposts needed.
Take Me Thigh Cuff System Keep their wrists locked to their thighs with this thigh cuff system. Their pussy and ass will be just out of reach for them, but wide open for you!
Keep 'Em Bound Neck to Wrist Restraints Keep their arms just where you want them! Lock their wrist cuffs low on their back or high between their shoulder blades so they’re just uncomfortable enough to behave and pay attention.
Open Wide Padded Thigh Sling Position Aid This simple and durable position aid keeps their legs bent and pulled open wide while on their back. Flip them over for the perfect doggy-style position!
Frisky 8-Piece Restraint Set Cuff their ankles and wrists and tie them up to the bed, chair, or anywhere you can attach the leashes to!
At Home Enema Kits Kits that generally include everything needed to clean the bowels but meant specifically for home use.
Shower Enema Systems Great for the frequent enema user who prefers to use enemas in an easy to clean place such as a shower or tub. Users can clean their anus while cleaning the rest of their body at the same time!
Enema Bulbs and Syringes These are reusable enemas that are great to travel with due to their small size and weight. The bulb is filled with water and then the user can compress the bulb to add pressure and shoot it into the anus. At the end of the bulb is usually a nozzle (or silicone or plastic syringe) that is inserted into the anus past the sphincter in order to bring fluids into the rectum without spilling. These tend to not get as deep of a clean as full enema kits.
Enema Bags and Water Bottles Similar in look and feel to a hot water bag that you would place over cramped muscles, the enema bags are rubber bags that can be filled with any fluid desired. Saline solutions or mineral water meant specifically for enemas are best to clean the digestive tract. However, those who enjoy enema play may fill them with their favorite liquids after the colon is thoroughly cleansed.
Enema Nozzles and Butt Plugs For some, the pleasant sensation of being penetrated is something arousing. Adding an attachment that turns enema cleansing into masturbation or play is a huge plus! There are a variety of nozzles that have bulbs and ridges, some are soft and others are hard. A few, such as this Inflatable Enema Butt Plug, are meant to stretch the receiver's anus while they get filled up to the brim with fluid.
Something for Everyone
Classic Dildos For a first time buyer, this is a great place to start. There’s a wide variety of options in both size and material. Try starting with a low-budget rubber dildo, or go for a time-tested favorite and choose silicone. There’s also an exciting variety of dildos that are curved, textured with ridges, and come in all different lengths and girths.
Dildos with a Suction Cup Base These enable the user to have the feeling of getting fucked and having hands free to play with themselves. Press the dildo onto any flat surface so the suction cup seals, and ride it to a climax.
More Than Just A Cock
Glass & Steel Dildos Non-porous, body safe and easy to clean, these have the added benefit of being used in temperature play. Heat them up or cool them down for added sensation!
Vibrating Dildos Generally made of silicone, these dildos have an extra stimulating feature of being able to vibrate at different intensities. A few of them even thrust, thump, or rotate so that users feel like they’re really being fucked.
Vibrating Dildo Accessories: While many are USB rechargeable, some come with remotes that require batteries so be sure to order them, too.
For When Size Matters
Huge Dildos For those who get excited by girth and length and want to challenge themselves. When using them, make sure to take your time and use lots of lube!
Inflatable Dildos These are great for stretching limits; place them inside of the anus or vagina and inflate until a desired pressure and internal fullness is reached.
Fun With Partners
Double Ended Dildos allows partners to slide a long dildo in and out of their holes at the same time, sharing the feeling of being connected to the same toy.
Strap-On Dildos are great for men and women. Women can use them to peg their male partners or to fuck their female ones. Some strap-ons for women are even strapless and can be held in the vagina instead of strapped around the hips, giving a feedback of stimulation and sensation to the G-spot while they fuck their partner. Check out our Guide to Strap-Ons.
Some strapless strap-ons such as this one even have vibrators above the clit so the one wearing it can feel the thrusting motion inside her while getting stimulation on her clit at the same time.
Men can use strap-ons to add a second cock above or below their own for double-penetration, or to keep going when they’ve gone flaccid.
Strap On Accessories: Strap-On Harnesses are necessary when buying a strap-on dildo. When buying a strap-on harness, make sure it fits the size of your dildo. Most strapon dildos have wide, flat bases (not suction cups) so as to lay flat against your pelvis while thrusting.
Penis Extenders are great options for enhancing the cock by adding different girth, texture, or length to it. It also allows wearers to keep giving their partner pleasure after they’ve ejaculated or if it’s difficult to stay hard due to reasons such as ED (erectile dysfunction) or hormonal changes.
For Female Bodied, FTM, or Trans
Packers can make females transitioning to males (FTM) feel more at home in their body. They can also add a little bit of fun for those who want to experiment with the feeling and weight of a cock for self-exploration or for fantasy alone or with a partner.
Packer Accessories: Incognito Boxer Harness with Hidden O-Ring - ditch the bulky harness and wear an incognito, breathable and comfortable pair of harness boxers that give you the option to pop in a strapon dildo any time you want without fussing over an outfit change!
Bras and Panties These include panties that you can slip a vibrator into, panties or shorts that can be worn with strap-on harnesses, slave-aesthetic bondage gear, breast binders and lingerie.
Harnesses These are specifically meant for a BDSM aesthetic. Some of them are fashionable, others are strong enough that they can bind the wearer, limit their movement, or have leashes attached to rings affixed to the straps. Most of these are made of leather or PU leather and metal.
Clothing Accessories These are the little things that make each outfit complete. They include collars, necklaces, bracelets and cuffs, as well as a few decorative nipple and pussy accessories and fetish gloves.
Stockings, Pantyhose and Leggings Easily worn under any sexy outfit, these provide a sensual layer of color or texture that highlights the curves of the body.
Sexy Lingerie These items include pantyhose material and full body stockings. However, it also includes bikinis, lacy underwear and bra sets and breast binders.
Fetish Masks These items range from lacy masks that can be worn at a masquerade to full on hoods that cover the face. Some of the hoods included are great for puppy play.
Fetish Dresses and Skirts Enjoy these sexy, see-through dresses that are made of stocking material.
PVC and Latex These items are made from PVC or latex and are very enjoyable to wear against the skin.
Men’s Fetish Clothing These include jock straps, long fisting gloves and durable harnesses made for a male build.
Corsets These items are traditionally meant to cinch down around the abdomen and exaggerate the curve of the waist. Primarily worn by women, they can be augmented to be worn by men, as well. Anything that uses strings to lace up several holes creating a cinching effect is considered a corset or corset-like material.
Ladies Tops Any fetish clothing that is worn across the chest and meant for the female build.
Gloves Latex, PVC or nitrile gloves meant for aesthetic or for kinky play.
Below are the most common variations on whips and floggers. Each has its own appeal.
Crops Modeled after traditional horse-riding crops, these implements have a long, rigid handle with a triangular or square end meant to tap or strike a small targeted area.
Paddles & Slappers These implements are wider and can cover more surface area. They are great for spanking the buttocks or thighs as they can cover the larger muscle groups all at once. Paddles are more rigid or firm and create a thuddy sensation if used heavily, or a stinging sensation if used in a hard, tapping motion. Slappers are two pieces held together at the handle; when swinging the slapper, the two parts hit at separate times and can create a more stinging sensation.
Floggers Technically a term for any implement that hits or beats an individual, this term is more specifically used today as any striking implement that has many tails. The most common floggers have over twenty single tails bundled together. However, these tails can include horse hair, rabbit fur, leather, cord, PU leather or braided cotton. The most common floggers today have a braided, rigid handle and a bundle of soft, suede leather falls. These are great for using both as thuddy impact tools and as gentle, soft and sensual tools to arouse and caress the submissive or bottom with. These can be great for beginners if they practice their aim before using on a partner. The multiple falls make it difficult to control where the implement actually lands on the body.
Canes These are rigid sticks made of a variety of durable materials such as wood, carbon fiber, hard plastic and even metal. Because there is very little give to these implements and because they strike a very directed and small surface area without dispersing the impact like paddles or floggers do, they can be very painful and sting. However, they are easier to aim than floggers are.
Whips These implements generally have a single tail, rather than multiple falls. Some are long enough to crack and the sound alone can be exciting and erotic. Others are perfect for targeting small areas of the body and creating stinging, sharp sensations. Because of the nature of these implements, target practice on a pillow or couch is absolutely necessary as they can break skin and cause bleeding if the user isn’t careful.
Ticklers These are a variety of implements that are used in a way that tickles the one receiving them. Generally, these have multiple, small or soft ends (feathers are popular) that are rapidly waved back and forth across the nipples, buttcocks, belly or genitals to excite and arouse.
Thrusting Dildo Sex Machines These simulate penetrative sex by using rotational or reciprocating force from a machine.
Vibrating Sex Saddles & Riding Sex Machines These machines are meant to be straddled and for the owner to ride them. Many of them also come with a vibrating feature or have a place for a vibrator to attach to.
Handheld Sex Machines & Dildo Drills These can be used solo or with a partner who uses the toy on someone else. One of the perks of these items is that they are smaller than the large fucking machines and more discreet due to the smaller motor so they aren’t as likely to wake the neighbors with a rumbling, vibrating motor.
Dildo Attachments & Accessories for Sex Machines One of the persk to fucking machines is that they are customizable; choose the perfect size, shape and style of toy to attach to the machine.
Male Masturbation Sex Machines & Auto Blowjob Machines These machines simulate fellatio or vaginal intercourse with powerful sucking, vibrating and pusling technology. Users can lay back and allow this hands-free experience to take them over the edge!
Nipple Suckers and Pumps All our options for nipple pumps and suckers that only need a hand pump or manual squeeze.
Clit and Nipple Suction Pump Sets Combo sets so all three locations can be stimulated at once!
Pussy Pumps and Labia Enlargers These are oval-shaped cups that fit over the entire vulva, including the clit!
Breast Pumps and Suction Cups Circular cups that fit over the breast. Many of these don’t fit over larger breasts, but they will suction in enough of the breast for it to be enjoyable to play with!
Anal Pumps and Rosebud Toys Cylinders that cause the anus to pucker. Many of these also have an insertable, as well. A few even vibrate!
Pump Accessories and Parts Extra cups and cylinders, motorized pumps and hand pumps, as well as tubing to go between the pump and the cup.
Clit Suckers and Pumps Suction pumps designed for the clitoris. Many of these can also be used on nipples, as well.